Help me on finding myself - need a teacher in life?

developing psychic abilities is completely different from finding yourself. Finding yourself is where you can say this is me, this is where I stand, this is who I am when with friends, this is who I am when by myself and so on. Developing psychic abilities is not that, thats working on a part of yourself not finding it. No one can say you have any gift, only you can. Besides everyone has abilities to a certain degree not just a few people. Dont be so ignorant. L&L